My wife met a guy on the train?
My wife met a guy on the train almost a year ago. She claims he rides the same train with her and it was just small talk. He is a DJ or something and she is into the music he spins so she friended him on Facebook "to get updates about his parties". But it just came to my attention that he also has her email address and I came across an email where she sent him her blackberry pin the night before we took a road trip the Georgia last 4th of July Holiday. She claims this is how he sends out his promotions but it makes no sense to me at all. She also follows him on twitter so I am forced wo wonder why does she need all this contact with him if all she cares about are his parties? She always seems to get annoyed and defensive when I ask about him and their relationship and her response is always "There is nothing going on". I am totally uncomfortable with this because its someone she met indepently on a train. However when I first heard about this guy she told me they met through a mutual friend which I know. So the story of how they met changed. She recently got flowers at work and she claimed she thought they were from me. I kept telling her they are not from me but she brought them home anyway. After asking her over and over again who sent them, she told me she bought them for herself to make me jelous but that turned ot to be lie she told me to get me to stop asking about it. She insists she doesnt know who sent it, only that it had a card that said "Thank You" which is bugging me because clearly its no one from work. She insists she doesn’t know who sent them and i just don’t buy it at all. Also feel like there is more between her and this guy she met on the train. There are more than one occasion where I couldn’t account for her whereabouts. And timing of when she met this guy and when she started to tell me she isn’t happy and that she isn’t in love with me anymore is too coincidental. She goes out more now with her co-workers and 98% of the time I am the one at home taking care of our kids. The home and our girls’ needs seem to be secondary for her these days. HELP!
She’s cheating and the flowers were from the guy on the train.
Is that what you wanted to hear? You already know that.
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Can you afford to hire a private investigator? It seems a little suspicious…
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i’d say you know what is going on, but you are in denial.
If i were you i’d get an account on xxxmatch.com and meet some new women "friends".
she doesn’t love you (so she says) so it IS OK for you to go and meet new horny women.
get a new woman, a new life, bail out early so SHE watches the children, and go and get laid..
sorry bro, but she has been getting it else where, now is the time for you to accept it and move on with your own life.
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Well if she is denying that nothing is going on between her and this DJ, but you believe that there is, then check her Facebook account, provided you know her password? check her emails, and when she isnt looking, check her phone… It may sound inappropriate to invade her privacy, but hey when you have kids as well, then you really need to know…
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Don’t get bogged down in arguing over this stuff. Just tell her very bluntly, "I am just trying to make sure our family is safe, and that our daughters know they can count on you." If you still have doubts and if she is neglecting her kids, maybe hire a private investigator to gather evidence. Good luck!
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U should be worried. True story – about six years ago, I cheated on my husband (at the time) with a dj. The dj was fun and helped me loosen up and explore a more spontaneous, irresponsible side of myself.
Good luck.
I got popped off on my blackberry, also. I told my husband the same things your wife is telling you. I also got defensive.
If this guy has come up more than once and there have been lies surrounding facts involving him, 9 times out of 10 there is an affair.
Normally, I try to keep my answers based on my professional opinion on the board, but your question drew a personal response.
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She’s cheating and the flowers were from the guy on the train.
Is that what you wanted to hear? You already know that.
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Call cheaters..
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This Sounds just like the movie "Derailed" except your wife is the man!!!
Watch the Movie "Derailed" with Jennifer Aniston!!! Wow…. it’s the story of your life.
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Make her take a lie detector test. Or get her on Jerry Springer
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